About

owner and lead planner - Deja’nay

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Hi, I’m Dej — the heart and hands behind Intimate Affairs. I launched this business in 2022 with one goal in mind: to help people feel deeply celebrated. What began as small gatherings for loved ones has grown into a full-service planning and styling company grounded in intention, care, and joy.

Planning events is more than checking off tasks. For me, it’s about creating meaningful spaces where people feel seen, honored, and connected. I specialize in intimate gatherings, romantic room setups, and thoughtfully curated experiences that are not only beautiful but deeply personal. Whether you’re planning a surprise for someone you love or celebrating a major milestone, my goal is to make it feel seamless, elevated, and true to you.

With a strong foundation in community programming and professional event planning, I know how to keep things organized behind the scenes — so you can stay present and enjoy the moment. At Intimate Affairs, you’re not just hiring a planner. You’re partnering with someone who values every detail of your vision, designs with purpose, and plans with care.

Let’s create something unforgettable together!


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FUN FACTS

I’m an intermittent Extreme Couponer, so luxury will always meet affordability with me.

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My Hogwarts house is Gryffindor, so I bring bravery, boldness, and a touch of magic to all my events.

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My zodiac sign is Pisces, so you can count on me to infuse every event with creativity and intuition.

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